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All return to the initial aspects and your intention to enter the world of crypto. If you come only for short-term profits, crypto isn't right for you. But if you come to dedicate some time to crypto in the long run, Crypto is a pleasant place. And in fact, the crypto world has many opportunities and good people in it. And they aim to make it easier for us as crypto users and the general public in utilizing crypto currencies in this day and age.
But OP never sees a crypto is a pleasant place. It is actually he becomes in troubled right now, he is really disappointed that Coinbase and Gemini increase with ther fees while his money stuck out there. It supposedly he wants to trade with them but getting mad when there is a huge change with.
@OP it is better to take some rest, you need space for you to decide what is best either to stay in crypto or withdraw all your funds and leave in this unpleasant place for you.