Perhaps there is a motive for
personal revenge, which of course does not adorn the current member of the DT. I do not deny her services to the forum in clearing scam, but the vector of her activity is destructive and fraught with professional deformation, when even decent people seem to be scammers. This happens.
If you look at the date of the message that you called personal revenge, you will easily see a contradiction. This post was published on September 7th.
And on September 14, lovesmayfamilis puts you on its
trust list. From which she removed you last week.
Where is the logic in your words? Stop blaming her.
You seem not very experienced with women. This is called "aroused and not fucked", a woman can forgive a lot, but not that. There is definitely logic in this, you just need to understand people more deeply.

September 7 - I hooked her
September 14 - She is agree
And nothing more
Bingo, the recipe for motive for personal revenge is ready.
I think the decision about the negative tag was made a wet cunt, which is probably why the more sane members of DT are in no hurry to support.
In my opinion, you have chosen the wrong defense tactics. You understand that the final solution to your question will depend on lovesmayfamilis, but you continue to blame and insult her. This has no prospects for resolving the situation.