Absolute nonsense!

A person can intent to scam, but finally do not scam.
Therefore a scam happens when the scam happened! 
Asking two times if someone can lend BTC worth 10
is not a scam in the real world!

You're right... asking for 10 isn't a scam, if you're going to return the money. Refusing to pay back 210 after the date you were supposed to is a scam.