I care more about my happines but without neglecting my responsibilities.
I have been in a position where I hate my job. I can't work well and optimizing myself. I feel that what I'm doing doesn't fulfill my purpose. But I need the job for my living. So, I start to understand myself what will make me happy, and is there something I can do with it to earn money. It's not easy. I have bumped into walls. But that's my definition of happiness, to working in something I enjoy.
It's not just about passion. It is not a passion if you don't create something. You are lucky if you find a passion that could earn you money.