it is very easy to judge this when you are doing well, I do not ask you for money and financial assistance, I just ask you to help withdraw the money. All.
You are not thinking straight. You are opening yourself up to a lot of harm, because you are giving out way too much personal information on a forum full of scammers. The scammer will use that information to track you down and to get to those coins.
There are some very knowledgeable people on this forum, with a very good reputation like
DannyHamilton -->
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?action=profile;u=60820 that would give you genuine information. Send him a private PM and ask him if he would be willing to help you.

Sorry for your loss.
Ps.. If this is a scam, you will seriously regret it, because the people will pull you apart.