I feel genuinely sorry for him that he/she/they/them ( constantly refers to plural - we and us - so I am trying to be gender sensitive) is unable to understand the social constructs or how the system works.
This is a great point that I hadn't considered. Maybe the whole "we" thing refers to one of the 58 genders and that's why they use that term. I'm specifically leaning toward
this one:
What does Two Spirit mean?
Two Spirit is a third gender found in some Native American cultures, often involving birth-assigned men or women taking on the identities and roles of the opposite sex. A sacred and historical identity, Two Spirit can include but is by no means limited to LGBTQ identities...
The term Two Spirit is an umbrella term across American Indian and First Nations cultures for a person who embodies both male and female spirits within them, hence Two Spirit.
Two Spirits, thus "we."