I'm trying to see the positive critisizm in all of this but there just isn't any.
I honestly can't believe how much positive criticism you received.
As for the community making you fail, what actually failed? From what I saw your website was nothing more than an untitled Zen Cart. You had nothing to begin with. Reminds me of this:
The '94 explorer I had my eye on sold yesterday so I'm once again out of a vehicle
You're not out of a vehicle. You never had one to begin with.