it is not recommended to join project not able to reach soft cap, this mean the project may close at any time, even the project is good it is not grantee it can success
Reaching softcap or hardcap is not a guarantee that a project will be around for a long time, some projects that have reached their hardcaps often turned scam exits.
Bitwings and EZ365
I don't have much information about these 2 projects but generally, some good projects are not able to reach the softcap because they are often coming from inexperience developers; they are honest but lack the technicalities to promote their ico projects.