It's because he didn't sign a pre-nup, if you sign one that clearly outlines each others financial situations, and things end up going sideways, you should be fine.
Pre nuptials are not legally binding where I'm at. Courts can recognise them but they're free to overrule them.
Married, in this life it is necessary and important, to control your money spent and give encouragement and encouragement from your wife.
Conversely if you are not married you become poor with your uncontrolled wastefulness.
Balls. I've never been married. I never will be married. I've seen what happens when people turn on each other. Before that happens you'll have wasted untold amounts of productivity, energy and money and after it happens you waste even more and it's all for nothing.
I can't be bothered with relationships any more. When I was it felt like I was being drained, not enriched.