yep even your family will treat you as parasite if you don't get a job. its not normal to just sit around doing nothing. you might as well be dead. people will advice you to learn how to fish, be a fisherman literately if you do nothing at all.
To tell the truth, I don't really care if some one refuses to work or not. But what happens nowadays is that people sit at home and expect the government to pay their expenses. And this is something that I can't condone. The number of welfare rats have increased over the years, due to the popularity of socialist parties. The problem here is that if the number of free-loaders increase above a certain threshold, then the entire system becomes nonviable. The government will end up with more and more fiscal deficit with every passing year and at some point an economic meltdown will occur.