How many children do you have? How many were accidents in life?

A great unknown
This is why it is advisable for each man to have his one wife, and each woman her one husband. Why would anyone leave his offspring to be supported by the winds of direction of government or some other person, simply by not knowing which offspring are his?

The holy bible do make this very clear that it is better each man should have his own wife
The only thing that should be clear is the human brain, what is wrong is wrong, the holy book does not control urges, emotions and temptation but us human do, so the holy book or not do the right thing.