That is a problem for everyone. Here's a thought.

Suppose you see a beautiful woman/man that you would like to get together with. But they are already happily married. Of course their spouse is a different person than you are. But consider. The spouse is having similar feelings of closeness to the person they are married to as you would have if you were married to that person.

In other words, there are other people around who do the things in life that you don't have time to do. They have feelings about what they do, just like you would have if you did those things.

We are not built to do everything. We are built to do only so much. Think your life out, and pick a direction you enjoy. Then do the things that you have chosen. After all, other people do the other things, and they feel the feelings of doing those other things... just like you would if you did the other things.

So, do something, so that you get the enjoyment of doing them. Why wait around trying to decide what to do. Get some joy by choosing a direction and going for it.