The problem i wanted to solve with the escrow bot is to automate the communication and process of establishing an escrow, rather than the trust factor itself since like many of you guys mentioned, that can only come with reputation and time.
I think reputable escrows here will not be interested in that kind of idea. And I believed, it's not an easy thing to do.
Maybe if the demand for using escrow here will noticeably growing, there might be a consideration. For now, a manual escrow is way safer. And besides, not all the time people are dealing with crypto payment transactions through direct trades. Since we are talking about a certain product
(you are buying products as you have mentioned,), try to find reputable companies, stores or merchants instead that accept crypto-payment so you don't need to find an escrow service for that purpose.
P.S. Since this was on Project Development, do you just share your concern or you are considering building a specific bot program or service for this?