Never even for one minute you should forget that you have a family to feed when you are gambling, the family is our priority and this should always be the case at all times we are living, if we are going to gamble only allocate an amount that will not make your family short with what they need
Just gamble on how much you can afford to lose. Family first before anything else, some able to lose big because of too greedy and without control of their selves. Indeed allocate such amount to gamble, as gamble comes with luck.