They picked the wrong person. Then only later they realize that the person is abusive to the point of physically being violent. This is why I'm fine with couples cohabitating for a while. That way you get to see what the person is once he/she is already comfortable with you and believe he/she already own you.
Marriage is prostitution. Any rational male if reviewing marriage will see that it is not in his benefits but only the woman.
At this point they are basically just on a lease from the government. They're the State's agent for collecting money. Deploy them against a man, get the money, the state gets a cut. Thank you, next.