I really do not see the point to tag someone just because they did not use escrow. My mind is open to listen by the way. Feel free bud.
Your new and don't have much trading history here, so ill forgive your nativity in the 1st instance, I on the other hand have traded hundreds of BTC here over the years and can tell you anyone who refuses to use escrow is 9 times out of 10 a scammer.
you have powers now you are on the DT lists please think about what a positive from you does.
anyway up to you how you behave, although I can assure you other DT members will exclude you if you behave in such a way moving forwards