We can deal no escrow if you want. First person that is going to send funds is going to be you though...
we are in the same boat my friend you are no more trusted than me... sorry.
Correct - and in that lies the point. You are yet another 0 day account asking to exchange something of value with the other person having to take the first step placing the burden of risk on them regardless of escrow. Dont worry, you are not the first to do this, but I am sure you wont be the last either.