I don't see the connection between bans and private chats (PMs). You don't think the admins are sitting around reading our PMs all day do you?
So, Blackpussy is writing about penises and now you want an avatar that fits well with your username and interest in penises. I wonder what avatar you would use if given a chance.

Male, Female or Autobot, nobody cares. The interest here is Bitcoin and Crypto and your real identity and pictures should be kept private.