the simple thing to do if you are newbie is just following the chart, never believe on people, whoever it is. if you want to trust people, just trust closer, or do research on every people. but the best part is just believe yourself
Nobody can love you more than yourself. You always know the best for yourself. That is why, listen to yourself instead of believing in others, someone else does not know how you are, what strategy you have, how much money you will lose, and frankly, it does not matter for anybody. Also, even if you lose as a result of your own choice, this does not hurt as much as the other.