As long you can fully control your asset, i think its enough for me to used the decentralized exchange.
The thread on here, @OP just want to shiling his website to everyone to use his website dex. However, since i dont really familiar with the site/dex i would skip for the exchange.
That's the official website of Blocknet's DEX. A project founded in 2014. I'm NOT the owner

How about bisq.network? It is open source DEX? I think it is one of the most popular DEX as far as I know. And there's a lot of DEX that members here have been playing around for years, like Etherdelta, although I agree that Binance DEX is not really that decentralized though.
I'm not really sure about (
https://blockdx.com/) though, maybe it's good alternative, maybe not. If it's good then there's no need to shill for it. Sooner or later the community will find about it, give their comments around.
Bisq isn't decentralized unfortunately, but close. Arbitrators can oversee disputes, so if your arbitrator is malicious, the honest party gets rekt simple as that.