This is due to your policy "No public evidence, can not do anything" on one hand, and me not tolerating abuse on the other hand.
Yet it doesn't provide any "evidence" so what was the point? Makes me think that the "secret evidence" in other cases, such as Kalemder's, is similarly flimsy to non-existent.
No, this is not a request to publish any more PMs, and not an excuse to blame others for your lapse in judgement.
I will translate it (this is what happened):
Step 1: User A: You have me excluded, can you look into it?
Step 2: User B: I will look into it - I have looked into it - Questions some inclusions/exclusions or sent ratings (depending on what is problematic). Keep in mind that this review is solely because User A asked.
Step 3: User A: I have excluded you.
This is what would have happened if I had acted differently:
Step 1: User A: You have me excluded, can you look into it?
Step 2: User B: I have removed your exclusion.
Step 3: User A: Thanks (and possibly "I have included you" - and the cycle begins).
Even assuming that User A did something wrong - which is debatable since it's based mostly on a hypothetical quid pro quo - a reasonable response would be to exclude them (or keep the exclusion as the case may be) and/or block them. Publishing PMs is uncalled for.