Since nobody can really guess your imaginary "topic of conversation", we have to go by what's in the thread title and in the OP, i.e. the "standards". In that context it seems very appropriate to point out your duplicity regarding neutral trust that you receive and neutral trust that others receive, as well as all your other "non-standard" behavior. You don't have to like it.
I at no point said he shouldn't be able to leave the rating, so your straw man argument is moot. The point was that even when things are done right, it is turned into another excuse to attack. This is why I will perpetually be as obstinate as possible with people like you and the rest of the clown car, because nothing is ever good enough. I am attacked just the same either way, so why comply with any of your demands?