The path forward, as always is reconciliation and respecting each others sentiments and avoiding playing on these fault lines. That is why i avoid strong statements on such things and make it a point to request everyone to do the same whenever i get the chance, online or offline..
Request denied.
LOL..Such a shame..I believe i present a better case in person because these requests don't get denied so bluntly. Or maybe, its just harder to say upfront that you'll continue to be a fuming jackass despite knowing that you can choose to be better. you not being YOU, of course.(stealing this, its too good)