Youre all taking the mental and physical stances as if someone's physicality has high significance and is the only thing we should rely on, if you want to "inspect" everyone you have quite a problem...
To be honest, unless you're hoping to start an eros relationship with them you don't really have much of a need to know what organs they got... IMO.
I don't think it really matters what gender you are or what gender you want to be, you can still be considered whatever you want as long as it doesn't harm anyone... Men and women have entirely different mental states to start with and I'd put your brain above your dna
And if I feel like I'm 20 does it make me 20? If I feel like I'm 70 does it make me 70? And more importantly must other people accept the "fact" that I'm 20 or 70? And is the government required to give me Social Security if I identify as 70?
The answer to all those is no. The same is true for any "mental state". You want to be a woman? Fine. But if you born with a dick you're not. You can put on a dress, change your name but you're still a man.
Does that mean that you should be imprisoned, physically assaulted or ridiculed? No. Of course not. But wanting to be a woman doesn't make you one.
It's this foolishness that is going to end the "cultural revolution" in which we find ourselves. Good riddance to this foolishness.