I might have lightly tapped the drum with a couple of fingers, but I certainly did not bang it.  The tone of my last post was meant to be un-hostile toward you, but sometimes there's no way to get the vibe of what was meant just by the written word alone. 

You're not ~'ed on my trust list, and I'm not considering doing so.  Nor am I against you.  We've done deals together and we've exchanged a few PMs in the past.  I have no beef with you, believe me.