The illustration speaks volume and that is the fact. If we critically look at most posts made by users that are willing to rank up, there is always a motive behind it, different from what the person has written.
We lead by examples and not just by mere written words that we ourselves cannot even do.
This is one of the reasons we keep on repeating what we have said before times without number.

I am using the word we because most people are guilty of that, except we decide to be pretentious.
So, OP, try to look for something new, to avoid being lashed with words next time.