Well I tried making a firewall exception and running as administrator but nothing showed up on the pool after I had submitted several shares. I did as you suggested and checked my Monero stats, and yeah it looks like I am indeed generated Monero shares. I took a close look at the output of the mining exe and I noticed that each share that was accepted was XMR. I kept an eye on it for awhile and saw that most of the work I was getting was XMR. Eventually I got a job from rx.biblepay.org-charity (as opposed to rx.biblepay.org), and that one turned into a valid share for XMR-Charity but it still did not show up in the pool stats.
Also something I noticed, when generated for biblepay.org-charity, it stops generating for XMR. Is this normal? Does it alternate between BBP and XMR?
Rob, maybe wireshark capture will help here ?
If it comes to that, but we have some other levels we can go to first, like verbose logging on the client, then capturing the traffic on the server for the address and adding some logging, etc. I will come back and check some other things with him next.