If you have a wife that was in the hospital with double pneumonia and you have four cousins with it. It is and was a shitty joke.
Nobody was making a joke about you, nor your situation. That's the point. If you get upset by these things found online, then I have bad news for you and your health.
We all deal with stress differently some laugh about it and some get irritated and look for others to blame but either way there is only one truth that none of us can deny.
No-one gets out of life alive.
I have 9 lives, and even I do not get out alive - you win this argument.