Where did i say vod said pretending?
Right here:
Why does lauda try to pretend to be a female ?
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Perhaps you missed the part where vod enquired?
Are you saying now lauda is trans?
I'm saying that accusing someone of being "deceptive" by "pretending" to be something other than their "real" gender is a transphobic attitude that helps nobody. Like I said earlier, why would you even care whether Lauda is transgender if you're not invited to our anilingual orgies?
Is this transexual or transvestite?
You must know surely given your relationship
I do, but I also know not to reveal someone's intimate details without their permission. That's pretty much the minimum level of politeness that's a prerequisite for getting to know such details in the first place. You should try it.