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You missed this part:
no hard feelings DaveF
I just took your post for example. No hard feelings, I have job, kids and obligations too, whole point is about system which should be self-resolved but people either don't have time or don't care or choose to stay away. Not really a good system IMO.
I did not take it personally, I just wanted to make the point that some people may not know they are here, others might not have the time to deal with it properly, etc.
And, since there is no FAQ some people might just go with instinct and add people they like and ~ those they do not without really digging deep into it.
Full disclosure I have been doing that. I have added people I have had successful trades with and who I felt helped other forum users in support. BUT, I have not examined their trust lists and I have not looked at their other posts to see if they are disruptive elsewhere. Lets face it you can be 100% on the collectibles board but a disruptive jerk in Legal but since I never look in there I would never know.
So now I am probably going to go back and take a look a bit more. I would like to think that the people I have been dealing with are an asset to the board but beyond what I have dealt with I really don't know.
Stay safe.
-Dave