If I have someone to listen to my misery it would be my best friend whom I can trust to keep my secret and not charge me for listening to my misery, I don't entrust my feeling to someone who is not genuine in understanding what I feel, I will just fooling myself.
i mean i got this idea because i thought it was kinda cool and beautiful.
thats the thing, we see it as charghing someone as something maybe not appropriate.
But i sincerely believe its just an exchange, and its the opposite of not making trust. its actually building trust in a way, by trading with another human being and actually valuing it.
i mean even if its your friend alright, yeah he or she doesnt charge you through, but what if she or he would be appreciated for what they do by recieving something which has material value cuz at the end of the day material gets us through our lives. anyway, charging may not be so bad as it may seem to be, an exchange of values...