If I have someone to listen to my misery it would be my best friend whom I can trust to keep my secret and not charge me for listening to my misery, I don't entrust my feeling to someone who is not genuine in understanding what I feel, I will just fooling myself.
i found the listening to my misery line funny. well, youre right in a sense.
ahah i see, people have different approaches to things. its just a matter of opinion.
listening in my world is an act. is listening an undervalued act amongst humans?
we all do things for waht we want. isnt that right?
for one person it could be money, for another something else like care maybe.
but the thing is when you focus and listen, youre actually making effort. and i think its just you who has the right to set the value of the effort they make on their part.