When a dangerous situation, say a natural disaster like an earthquake occurs, do you know what the difference between a believer and a non-believer will be?
The non-believer will die crushed by the building he's in.
The believer will start praying and then die just like the non-believer.
If you need that feeling of being with someone and having a helping hand in a time of need, maybe you need more friends in your life?
I don't think that believer will die the exact way as non-believer. God loves all the people in the world if we are believer or not. He will always protect us from evil. If someone really HATES God He will probably show that person that World without God is a complete mess and only evil. He will try to put that person on the right way for the better future life. Maybe the non - believer will die crushed by the building because he wasn't careful. The same thing can happen to believer. God can't always control us in a way that for example, are we are going to be careful or not, is anyone going to do something or not. He gave us the possibility to choose what are we going to do in our lives, and He will just bring us to a right way, even if we chose the wrong one, at some point He will bring us back to the right one.