I wish i had merit to send, this response is everything <3
Sigh,,, this happens every site I go to and I do not know why online, people have this really bad habit. It usually starts out well. They "loan" a guy a small amount and the guy pays back with a small tip. So it gets bigger the loan and then it never gets paid back.
I have seen countless arguments over loans, some sites even ban both lender and borrower.
No one would ever think to ask or lend at a real casino. Why people do it online I can never understand.