Everything in your life that's is coming you're attracting consciously/subconsciously. Wherever you're in your life right now are attracted to you by virtue of past images you are holding in your mind. Humen is a transmission tower, and they transmit the frequency of their desire by thoughts. By changing thoughts, someone can change anything in his life.
I learned that life is nothing but the mirror of our dominant thoughts.
The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, is my all-time favorite book and must-read for everyone. You will learn to set up the inner intention and to set up goals, affirmation, and visualization techniques, which can improve the quality of life.