I'm kinda interested on what escrow type you are explaining here https://prnt.sc/t7f28w? Is this some kind of a 3rd party app? It seems that you are insisting to used the escrow that you preferred and you even suggest to send BTC/USDT to you first.

I understand your point on accusing that he was scam because he called the escrow his "Bro" which even I will be  worry because they might set you up and you have any idea who the escrow is. But I believe Elmanchez said that to explain the "FREE" escrow fee that he offers to you earlier in your conversation.

DirewolfM14 has a loan business here (https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5132594.0) in the forum and invested money more than the amount you are dealing. So there is no way he will scam you if ever the deal was made inside the forum.

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The proof that he attempt to scam you is not that strong. You are just upset because the deal didn't go through in your preferred way of doing escrow and you easily jump into conclusion without checking the escrow he was referring because he called it "Bro".

PS: It will be really helpful if you can provide my request about your preferred escrow service.