it's kind of embarrassing to be honest.. that's why I haven't mentioned my reason for needing the loan. my girlfriend lives about an hour away and we're not doing well. I want to go see her, but I'm out of gas and don't get paid till Thursday. I really didn't expect this to work. I'm just grasping at straws and figured I might as well try. I should probably just delete this post, because it just makes me look foolish.
Sorry to say it but I can't even remember how many times I've heard this same reason over the years. Not to mention that 99% of them didn't come back and talking about honesty.
It will be better if you have collateral but you don't. So as you said, the best solution is to lock your thread and look to get it from relatives and friends.