If you would like to use an escrow, please indicate that in the form. I am happy to work with that, however, any fees will be on the lendee's account.
It is good decision that you decide to use escrow if borrower want to. As you are giving the loan, you are the lender and those who will took loan is borrower. You post indicates wrong meaning which seems those who will take loan are lender. It is wrong, please make correction.