I made promises to my son with that money set up a meeting to buy a home and now I just look stupid. I'm broken hearted and I need retribution or something
This mistake should become a lesson for you to know the difference between a scams and legit. At first, you will really feel bad about the thing that you've done to your money that was supposed to be a budget for buying a home for your family. But, this should served as a lesson for you to become more better and effective in choosing a reputable gambling platforms.
It looks to me that none of you really won anything. They show you big wins only to lurk you to deposit money that they will run away with. This is very popular scamming tactics.
I would also move this thread into reputation section. Post proofs and convince DT to flag them properly. That way if they are scammers - there is nothing else you can do but if not you will for sure get their attention and speed up solving the case.
There are a lot of threads here that will give you idea to identify those scams in gambling platforms.
You can read there and become enlighten about the thing that they do to fool people and steal their money or winnings. This is not a rare event in gambling industry and cryptocurrency, if you are not aware about those scams then you are probably prone as their victim. Try to read and learn for this losses to never happen again.