The only way, is to use escrow but they will try everything to fake the escrow because they dont have any SES accounts.
Even if they are using escrow, the original owner/seller can still recover the account by contacting support, its easy for them to recover those account created by them linking their contact number.
Buyer should always check the case history of the account if there's previous recovery case, and stop the trade if there is, because probably the account was sold and recovered before.