Sorry I don't get where you get from a stolen video player to people owning you, your spouse or your children. And as I said, comparing society, which is inherited by and large, with a group of friends playing a video game, which is voluntary by and large, doesn't make sense to me. You can leave the group and it hurts no-one. Refuse to pay taxes and it does affect other people.
We'll get there, but we have to start somewhere. Do you own your own person? Is your life wholely your own? If so, can you give it away, like you can a physical object that you rightly own? Can someone else rightly take it from you against your will, if you have caused neither them, nor anyone that they might represent, any real harm?