(And yes "they" is grammatically correct for referring to the singular, or so I've heard.)
No, it is not correctoutside the fantasies of the Newspeak Dictionary, Tenth Edition (or is it the Eleventh now?).
I dont want to feed more off-topic drama, much less engage in a pronouns flamewar at this particular moment. This is just one of those issues where bad information stands, unless somebody contradicts it. I will do so, for the promotion of singular they is a part of the linguistic degeneration that has rendered most of the Internet not only illiterate, but illegible; and it
is politically motivated, however much you may disclaim political correctness.
I dont want to come off as lecturing you about language usage. I just ask you to please not lecture others on itespecially not to declare peremptorily correct a contentious usage that is widely abhorred.
I was actually suspecting this sway character could be a she. (or not)
Perhaps. What of it?
I have engaged in similar speculations about others, but never corrected the pronouns applied to people who choose to keep this one binary bit of identifying information private. On a forum that respects privacy and anonymity, I suggest that it is generally appropriate to avoid prying, unless you are friendly enough with a person to ask in private. Simply pick whatever pronoun seems best to fit the available evidence, and stick to it unless contrary evidence arises.
(I
have corrected others who decided to refer to me as a hipster default she.)
back in the day, as in way back in the day, when i learned english (in two different english speaking countries)
Back in the daywhen people spoke
English, in contradistinction to the bastardized postmodern cant used by degenerate anthropoids with pickled brains.
i thought i learned that when a singular person of unknown sex was referred to "he" could refer to either sex.
Yes.