Yes i agree people with the most to loose use usually make the most noise

I think this is not the case here.
If I would have 20 stakes, I would be laughing silently somewhere in a corner
Why make so much noise if you're certain that it can't be traced? It's certainly not because you are compassionate with people who will get refunded.This is just to upset people...
If your intention is to have less NEM haters, this is not the way to achieve it, so that can't be the case.
I can only see one other motive to react like that.