The fees to send ETH are minimum $5 in fees ... is it going to change back to "normal"?
Who dictates how much fees are charged?
If ETH is claimed to be decentralized where are those high fees coming from if not from a centralized party?!
The increase in fees in any network is determined by the amount of users transacting during a period of time and if there are more users sending the transactions simultaneously the gas fees will go higher as the network become congested. Until there is an upgrade that would improve things drastically you need to content with the higher fees.