I didn't really get the answer about love to my bottom (which seems to be holding, BTW). If a woman is with you because of love or something else, you might never know. If you're with her because you like her or love her, that's all you can know : you're own sentiments. None of that is about qualities of someone, though, the usual dilemma is smart or beautiful, both or neither. The woman in my pic is an accomplished French actress which seems pretty smart to me, not a bimbo, so my kind of (unobtainable) woman. Dumb and beautiful can be endearing but I can't imagine that lasting long. Of course people can have qualities you can't discern like that, when you see sex symbol actors cheating on their beautiful wives with the bland nanny, there has to be a reason.