If I seem dismissive, it's because some things are self-evident and I don't know how to explain it to you. There is not enough space for insignificant transactions on the main chain. Expanding the block size in only a very temporary solution. If Bitcoin is successful, smaller transactions will be priced out. No scaling solution changes the fact that the "main" chain will not be used by regular people for small transactions. You have to compete for the limited resource (the most secure store of wealth ever created). That naturally means higher fees. This is not my ideology, this is just basic supply and demand.

Bitcoin is not a Utopian or Libertarian dream. It is open to anyone, not everyone, and that necessarily means, people with more money will force people with little money off of the "main chain". This is not my ideology, this is just how the world works.

You seem very upset with how the world works but Bitcoin is not the solution to that and no amount of raging on this forum will change reality.