the secret to completing a challenge. is to stop calling it a challenge.
treat everything as a game.
i know people that struggle to walk and they felt it was a challenge to walk down roadside path without pain.
i then set them a game.
i pointed out markers along the road such as a bush, a tree, a signpost. and i said dont just aim for the end of the road destination. just aim for the first marker. just get there nice and easy. thats all that matters for now.
they did it and it was less stressfull less overwhelming and they were more accepting to try.
then the next marker, then the next
so if you think there is something that is challenging you dont think of only achieving the destination or thinking you only have one attempt at doing it.
break it down into smaller parts and know you can make many attempts until you get them all right.
if you want a certain career. do not set the hard path of just beginning and destination. and thinking you got one chance. realise that if you break it down to certain smaller parts and realise if you fell one aspect. you can always take a small break and then try again. knowing that yea it might take a lil longer. but eventually you will get to complete the goal you want
there is more then one way to get success so dont get fixated on one path, one direction, one result