Ok and where you want use trusted escrow?
I have Paxful.
Post your paxful to see the age of your account (if newer than just a couple of months then forget it) how many trades you have had and if successful.
You could just be an alt of someone who just had their account revealed for trying to pull a fast one on the members here.
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Loki888 https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5280385.msg55371875#msg55371875paxful is a disaster for me. Their customer support is literally non-existent , just look at their trustpilot and app store review.
I think is as long as traders do KYC then it's safe...
I have moved to binance and ALL trades have been smooth so far.
Perfect as I'm on Binance too please what's your Merchant ID. You can also chat me on telegram.