In the process of trying to be a future whales you could lost everything,trust me this got me no where and I realized that I've lost tons of money because I was never contented, be smart and always take advantage of any project that brings you profit, do not stare at your wallet and say 'im gonna be rich in 3 years later' this is 1% out of 100% chance that it's ever going to happen, remember, been rich isn't the most important part of our lives but living a good life is.
I do not understand the problem you tried to share here about what made you lost money. Was it that you lost your investment to scammers or that your wallet was hacked or that you bought tokens at ICO that did not list? Generally what I have realised is that crypto business is not a 100% guarantee to become rich. It is a luck and coincident thing to get a token which can make you money. It takes time ti become rich.
I see both of you are not understanding the right investment here, investing in this market or anywhere, have you ever set yourself your investment criteria and methods. I see you say that lucky teeth in the market, in fact luck does not come naturally to you if you do not go looking for it. I am also a person in this space for a long time and also go through many times involved in crypto hoarding and i see most people until they lose all of their money to realize they are losing control of themselves and them. do not understand this market. Lessons have been learned, but it still takes money and time to realize it.