I’m paying my <censored> monthly allowance of 2000 (out of my own hard earned wallet cash ofc) without failed for more than 9 years. I think that’s enough for everyday necessity and even some luxury items to treat themselves to their heart content.
And one fine day my <censored> reach me a complaint about having money problem and hinting me to increase the monthly allowance for <censored gender> itself. I’m unwillingly to provide more help as I find myself unconditionally advocating the self entitled mentality on my own <censored> and it would begin to nailed me an arm and a leg, if I give into that sort of entitlement.
I begin to realise there is really a problem that can’t be fixed, won’t have an answer to that problem, and it’s no right or wrong way to do it.
That’s just one fine instance, I believe there is much more on the wild, a whole lot of mission impossible that’s without my knowing.
It's pretty hard to make any judgement without knowing all the facts. Likely you aren't interested in sharing anymore than you already have and you're just here to vent.
You're not alone. Many people have to support others in this world and sometimes not only with money but with their time, effort and emotions. It can be quite difficult at times not to do so grudgingly and while occasionally more money may be required (as I suspect due to inflationary pressure after 9 years) sometimes more money isn't the answer. In cases where lawyers get involved, the costs can skyrocket and the main beneficiary in that case is generally the lawyer. It's not always easy to sleep in the beds we've made for ourselves and none of us can accurately predict the future.